Advocating April
One of the biggest things I've learned after having kids, especially Dot - was to speak up and advocate for my children, myself, my friends and loved ones. Dot at her most recent MRI. We have them yearly due to her CVR surgery at 11 months old. More coming in that in the future! I didn't know when I was asking the nurses and doctors in the NICU, that what I was actually doing, was advocating for my child. When our primary nurse (who I simply loved) commented on how involved I was with Dot while she was in the NICU, it kind of struck me as odd to be honest. Doesn't every parent question what these doctors and nurses are doing to their kids, and why? Dot was a mystery case for the first two of her almost three month stay. At a certain point it's almost like some twisted Badge of Honor - MY kid is the one y'all can't figure out? Sounds about right. She was chuffing when she was born, so I told my mom who was holding her as I was on the operating table - that